We grew up in a Sexist Patriarchal cult. Growing up religious, we were taught our sexuality was something dark-something to fear and suppress. The mere sight of our bodies could corrupt and cause man to sin. We were told that we would be to blame and that we should hide and be ashamed of our bodies. They gave us religious pamphlets that said without our virginity we were worthless and compared non-virgins to “chewed-up-used gum.” In our society we repress and condescend female sexuality as somet